"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Keyboard Jockies...

Bunk 040

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...stop posting/reading here for 2 WHOLE weeks so you can get field experience!

Nuff Said!!!!!

Now who's up for the challenge.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bunk 040

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As a matter of fact don't come on the net for 2 WEEKS. If you feel like signing in go outside and run or something because it's too many dudes posting here day and night giving advice when you can sincerely tell that they don't talk to females.

Get into the ****ing field.

NOW NUFF SAID!!!!!
 

Porky

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Shut upbraggrar.t


HAHA jsut kidding.

I stopped posting here for two weeks because I got pissed off at the crappy advice that soem master DJ's were giving.

This site really isn't that great onc eyou absorb the info.

I'm the best.

Bunk I'm the gbest.
 

Ballistik

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Or, you could be one of the people who gets plenty of field experience and manages to get online a lot.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Porky

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puerto rican lover is the king of all keybaord jockeys.

he haslike 14 posts/day I swear.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Dude you're probably right about some persons being on here too much. But why do you care about others field experience?
 

McKindley

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For about 5 months I didn't have the internet or TV. I just moved and now I have all that crap again, but let me tell you, not having it wasn't bad at all.

For about a week it is annoying. You want to mess around on the net, or you want to watch the Daily Show, but soon you forget about all that crap and do things like run and read books all day.

I'm just visiting this site for the first time in about 5 months now, and I really didn't miss it at all. The problem with visiting this site is you overanalyze girls and what you want with them.

This site was good at the beginning to help me get a certain mindset, but really after you read the bible you're about done here (I know I was.)

In all honesty, its a lot easier to just stop using the net entirely than try to take off for two weeks.

And btw, if you're one of those guys who sits around and plays on this site ALL DAY LONG you DEFINATELY need to put your computer in a box in the corner for a few months. It helps, trust me.
 

LikRetsam

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Some of us get plenty of experience during the day or night and have time to post here.

I leave my pc on the site when I'm doing my homework and post whenever I see something interresting. I have the time at night during the week and even on some weekends. It has nothing to do with the other 23 and half hours of my day.
 

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Originally posted by Bunk 040
As a matter of fact don't come on the net for 2 WEEKS. If you feel like signing in go outside and run or something because it's too many dudes posting here day and night giving advice when you can sincerely tell that they don't talk to females.

Get into the ****ing field.

NOW NUFF SAID!!!!!
SHUT THE FUC.K UP! Alot of the guys in here think they are such DJs and you can tell the way they explain things that they have never experienced or learned. Why be a DJ? Why not be yourself?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think the point the poster is trying to get across is not to become to dependent on SoSuave. Many people stop seeing the site as an advice-center and start to become too caught up in the entertainment value. I'd be lying if it didn't say that I have wasted countless hours here reading posts that had no relevancy to my life what-so-ever. When you start coming to the site to have fun, you start to slack off. I remeber in the beginning of the year having much more efficiency with my free time... I gotta start studying and get into the field more so I'll be taking a break from the site for a wee bit.
 

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I've gotta say that this is pretty true, that us Keyboard Jockies should probably take a break from the net and such. I know I need to, going to boot camp in 2 months and i need to focus on other things rather than internet and message forums. I'm proclaming my hiatus from the net. Shouldn't be bad, it's been fun but its time to hang up the mouse and keyboard for a while. And now I say farewell.
 

The Antichrist_Star

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What do I do now?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I left the site for two weeks, it helped me a lot.

...but if you guys notice, I don't sit around and preach about how I am such a DJ...
 

JSH

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Now use those two weeks to improve your spelling.

Nuff said


hint, fifteen is spelt this way instead of fiphteen, mister ganagster.
 

deeloo

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Originally posted by tactic
SHUT THE FUC.K UP! Alot of the guys in here think they are such DJs and you can tell the way they explain things that they have never experienced or learned. Why be a DJ? Why not be yourself?
uh.. wtf r u doin here then
 
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