You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
1) exactly, you have less opportunities to stuff up or for one of your m8s to stuff up by remindin you of the time you pissed yourself in junior high (or whatever, im english).Originally posted by Jerky Boi
I don't think it's all that much easier for a few reasons:
1. You don't get to talk to her all that often during the week.
2. You don't really know if she's talking to other guys.
3. It'd be really easy for her to start messing with someone else. Think about it; He's there, you're not
Of course, there are lots of upsides to going out with someone that goes to another school. I've gone out and talked to a few girls before that went to different schools. Although, if I had a choice, I'd rather be with someone that I can see a lot more. Just my opinion..