Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kevin Samuels has passed away

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kevin Samuels, a YouTuber who became known for his controversial relationship advice, has died, his mother confirmed to NBC News. Rumors of his death first circulated on social media Thursday night

Have no idea why you guys take advices from a guy that was living with his mother at that age , for sure his advice was not coming from a place of high experience
 
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So... His confidence and swagger was coke fueled huh?
Definitely someone to look up to then.... :rolleyes:
I’m not that old but I’ve learned that everyone has something fueling them. There’s no such thing as this 100% clean, efficient vegan super warrior person.
 

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Kevin Samuels, a YouTuber who became known for his controversial relationship advice, has died, his mother confirmed to NBC News. Rumors of his death first circulated on social media Thursday night

Have no idea why you guys take advices from a guy that was living with his mother at that age , for sure his advice was not coming from a place of high experience
What’s with all the unfounded slander? Are you a feminist?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I’m not that old but I’ve learned that everyone has something fueling them. There’s no such thing as this 100% clean, efficient vegan super warrior person.
Not always drugs. When someone is operating in their passion they will be supercharged. Add in good nutrition, great workouts even moreso. Remove bad habits, even more so. Remove time wasters even more so. Add in having the luxury and style items you desire, even more so. Throw on money and admiration even more so. The driver could be being the best you can be and enjoying your life fully.
 

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what is feminist about calling out a guy that is writing about women from the basement of his mothers house ?
He wasn’t. His mom found out about his passing through social media. How that story reached you as “He wrote from his mother’s basement” is at the very least an example of distorted information and completely false.

But I’m sure feminists would love to believe it’s true about a man who told average women that marrying an average man is not “settling” and most likely the best outcome.
 

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Who the hell said anything about him living with his mother? You guys are stupid as hell lol
 

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Who the hell said anything about him living with his mother? You guys are stupid as hell lol
so what was his life then ?
All this red pill towards black pill guys are more or less the same

who is living the life has little to no time to write about it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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so what was his life then ?
All this red pill towards black pill guys are more or less the same

who is living the life has little to no time to write about it
If youre interested then go research him.
 

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It’s sad that KS has died, I would listen to his podcasts occasionally and found them entertaining. I think it was more entertainment than advise. I like the fact that he had women call in, because they basically confirmed exactly what he was saying.

I had no idea he was into drugs, that shocked me. Funny that some people here think he lived in his mom’s basement, that made me laugh and as Kevin would have said “that is bull****”.
 
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Not always drugs. When someone is operating in their passion they will be supercharged. Add in good nutrition, great workouts even moreso. Remove bad habits, even more so. Remove time wasters even more so. Add in having the luxury and style items you desire, even more so. Throw on money and admiration even more so. The driver could be being the best you can be and enjoying your life fully.
I guess it depends on your job..If you are over here retired in some cabin playing video games all day then sure but if you’re in a stressful job like KS, I’ll call cap lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Man,it sucks that KS has passed.He was,in my opinion, the manosphere speaker with the most credibility.He was who he said he was.He was never afraid to show his work.

He was obviously very much influenced by Rollo and the Rational Male,but he was still able to bring new original ideas and perspectives to the table.He stopped being a giver of advice long ago, and merely became an observer of truths.He excelled at showing women the extent of their own folly and entitlement.

His most eye opening questions were when he’d ask some entitled,ran through,train wreck of a single mother who wanted a high value man if she would be okay with her son marrying a woman like her.That always stopped them in their tracks.

He wasn’t a PUA guru.He didn’t claim to be one.He made it clear that he was only willing to deal with high value men,which he did.He called himself an image consultant,thus the best lessons to be learned from him were from observation of his demeanour,his style,his confidence and how he dealt with crazy feminists the ilk of which most of this forum complains.(They were always on his show.)

He made me realize the importance of details,going the extra mile to present yourself in the best light,having your fragrance on point,taking up a skin care routine,etc.

It surprises me to see he has critics here.Sure,a lot of his content was geared towards the African American community,but a lot of the principles were universal, and there was something there for every man.But I suppose when you try to set yourself apart from the crowd,you’ll get critics.Everyone’s got critics,heck,even God Himself has critics.

I think if all you got from his show was entertainment then you missed the point.Sure,he went viral for calling out and torching entitled women but he was just as likely to torch a sloppy,underachieving,entitled man,which he did multiple times on his show.

I don’t know if he chose the name “godfather” or if it was given to him,but he certainly merited it.

RIP KS.
 

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Kevin Samuels, a YouTuber who became known for his controversial relationship advice, has died, his mother confirmed to NBC News. Rumors of his death first circulated on social media Thursday night

Have no idea why you guys take advices from a guy that was living with his mother at that age , for sure his advice was not coming from a place of high experience
This depicts that you neither ever heard of him nor saw any of his content.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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