"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ken chang

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Wow, I feel like I haven't done a FR in years! And this is my very first FR in the DJ forum.

Last Saturday, I number closed twice, got "rejected" once.(I know we don't like the word rejection, but I'm a little rusty and I've forgotten the terminology for a replacement for that word)

AND IT FELT GREAT! As in even the rejection felt great!

I'm in a pretty good relationship right now with a woman that completely adores me(although, she has begun to bore me also)and I haven't been sarging in a while. For you guys who are out of practice, just jump back in. It's like riding a bike.

I wont tell you about the number closes, they were very basic, but let me tell you a little something about the rejection. I thought I had built enough rapport and I went for the number close to which she responded, "What for?". I've never gotten a "What for" before so it caught me a little off guard. I smiled and sarcastically said,"So I can text you."to which she replied,"Some other time."

What would be a better comeback to a "What for"? My friend suggested,"So I can text my grandmother. So I can text you, of course."

Any other suggestions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
 

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jophil28 said:
Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
Haha! That does sound like a nice comeback. Thanks.
 
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