"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ken: Field report

ken chang

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Wow, I feel like I haven't done a FR in years! And this is my very first FR in the DJ forum.

Last Saturday, I number closed twice, got "rejected" once.(I know we don't like the word rejection, but I'm a little rusty and I've forgotten the terminology for a replacement for that word)

AND IT FELT GREAT! As in even the rejection felt great!

I'm in a pretty good relationship right now with a woman that completely adores me(although, she has begun to bore me also)and I haven't been sarging in a while. For you guys who are out of practice, just jump back in. It's like riding a bike.

I wont tell you about the number closes, they were very basic, but let me tell you a little something about the rejection. I thought I had built enough rapport and I went for the number close to which she responded, "What for?". I've never gotten a "What for" before so it caught me a little off guard. I smiled and sarcastically said,"So I can text you."to which she replied,"Some other time."

What would be a better comeback to a "What for"? My friend suggested,"So I can text my grandmother. So I can text you, of course."

Any other suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
 

ken chang

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jophil28 said:
Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
Haha! That does sound like a nice comeback. Thanks.
 
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