"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ken: Field report

ken chang

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Wow, I feel like I haven't done a FR in years! And this is my very first FR in the DJ forum.

Last Saturday, I number closed twice, got "rejected" once.(I know we don't like the word rejection, but I'm a little rusty and I've forgotten the terminology for a replacement for that word)

AND IT FELT GREAT! As in even the rejection felt great!

I'm in a pretty good relationship right now with a woman that completely adores me(although, she has begun to bore me also)and I haven't been sarging in a while. For you guys who are out of practice, just jump back in. It's like riding a bike.

I wont tell you about the number closes, they were very basic, but let me tell you a little something about the rejection. I thought I had built enough rapport and I went for the number close to which she responded, "What for?". I've never gotten a "What for" before so it caught me a little off guard. I smiled and sarcastically said,"So I can text you."to which she replied,"Some other time."

What would be a better comeback to a "What for"? My friend suggested,"So I can text my grandmother. So I can text you, of course."

Any other suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
 

ken chang

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jophil28 said:
Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
Haha! That does sound like a nice comeback. Thanks.
 
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