"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ken: Field report

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Wow, I feel like I haven't done a FR in years! And this is my very first FR in the DJ forum.

Last Saturday, I number closed twice, got "rejected" once.(I know we don't like the word rejection, but I'm a little rusty and I've forgotten the terminology for a replacement for that word)

AND IT FELT GREAT! As in even the rejection felt great!

I'm in a pretty good relationship right now with a woman that completely adores me(although, she has begun to bore me also)and I haven't been sarging in a while. For you guys who are out of practice, just jump back in. It's like riding a bike.

I wont tell you about the number closes, they were very basic, but let me tell you a little something about the rejection. I thought I had built enough rapport and I went for the number close to which she responded, "What for?". I've never gotten a "What for" before so it caught me a little off guard. I smiled and sarcastically said,"So I can text you."to which she replied,"Some other time."

What would be a better comeback to a "What for"? My friend suggested,"So I can text my grandmother. So I can text you, of course."

Any other suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
 
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jophil28 said:
Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
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Haha! That does sound like a nice comeback. Thanks.
 
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