Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ken: Field report

ken chang

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Wow, I feel like I haven't done a FR in years! And this is my very first FR in the DJ forum.

Last Saturday, I number closed twice, got "rejected" once.(I know we don't like the word rejection, but I'm a little rusty and I've forgotten the terminology for a replacement for that word)

AND IT FELT GREAT! As in even the rejection felt great!

I'm in a pretty good relationship right now with a woman that completely adores me(although, she has begun to bore me also)and I haven't been sarging in a while. For you guys who are out of practice, just jump back in. It's like riding a bike.

I wont tell you about the number closes, they were very basic, but let me tell you a little something about the rejection. I thought I had built enough rapport and I went for the number close to which she responded, "What for?". I've never gotten a "What for" before so it caught me a little off guard. I smiled and sarcastically said,"So I can text you."to which she replied,"Some other time."

What would be a better comeback to a "What for"? My friend suggested,"So I can text my grandmother. So I can text you, of course."

Any other suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
 

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jophil28 said:
Women like that will suck all the attention you give them to have their ego stroked, and then get another buzz by shooting you down.

I would just reply with a smirk," Never mind, my mistake. You looked like you needed at least one friend." Then just walk away .
Haha! That does sound like a nice comeback. Thanks.
 
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