This girl I've been messing around with for a while....I guess she considers herself my girlfriend. She texts me about once a day asking if I miss her. How should I respond to this? Something ****y and funny I guess but I don't want to piss her off either.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Keeps texting she misses me
- Thread starter SamMalone
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dannyegg4575
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how about just a simple, "I know."
I got an email from a girl today asking if I missed her. I used the "I listen to goat play pool over salad two days ago' line. I have no idea what it means, but it's funny.DonS said:Mavrick's hit it on the head. It really doesn't matter what you say as long as you keep the frame. Whatever you do, don't go logical. In response to I miss you, I would probably try:
"About time you joined the crowd"
"Along with every other hottie"
"Of course you do, baby." I did this one yesterday.
"You're so in love with me"
"is this the infatuation or psycho phase you're in"
"I listen to goat play pool over salad two days ago:
You get the point; treat her like a little girl.
She emailed me back asking me what that means. I replied with "You know. Goat... Pool... Salad..."
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
traffic said:
lol good one
some other responses to increase attraction (if you want)
"nice.."
"you are so cute"
say nothing
"i like your ass as well"
"hrmm..
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some responses to decrease atrraction
none. if she's txting you this ****, she's infatuated by now
well if shes getting annoying reply with...
"how can I miss you when I'm with your Sister?
gr8 way to make her stop txting you
*side effects may include:
Kick in the balls
Slap in the face
major pms comming your way
and blue balls!
"how can I miss you when I'm with your Sister?
gr8 way to make her stop txting you
*side effects may include:
Kick in the balls
Slap in the face
major pms comming your way
and blue balls!
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
While all of these r funny. N I also use da i kno lines n she laughs. Sum of dem will not talk to u again lol den again who cares she aint worth it