This girl I've been messing around with for a while....I guess she considers herself my girlfriend. She texts me about once a day asking if I miss her. How should I respond to this? Something ****y and funny I guess but I don't want to piss her off either.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Keeps texting she misses me
- Thread starter SamMalone
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dannyegg4575
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how about just a simple, "I know."
I got an email from a girl today asking if I missed her. I used the "I listen to goat play pool over salad two days ago' line. I have no idea what it means, but it's funny.DonS said:Mavrick's hit it on the head. It really doesn't matter what you say as long as you keep the frame. Whatever you do, don't go logical. In response to I miss you, I would probably try:
"About time you joined the crowd"
"Along with every other hottie"
"Of course you do, baby." I did this one yesterday.
"You're so in love with me"
"is this the infatuation or psycho phase you're in"
"I listen to goat play pool over salad two days ago:
You get the point; treat her like a little girl.
She emailed me back asking me what that means. I replied with "You know. Goat... Pool... Salad..."
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
traffic said:
lol good one
some other responses to increase attraction (if you want)
"nice.."
"you are so cute"
say nothing
"i like your ass as well"
"hrmm..
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some responses to decrease atrraction
none. if she's txting you this ****, she's infatuated by now
well if shes getting annoying reply with...
"how can I miss you when I'm with your Sister?
gr8 way to make her stop txting you
*side effects may include:
Kick in the balls
Slap in the face
major pms comming your way
and blue balls!
"how can I miss you when I'm with your Sister?
gr8 way to make her stop txting you
*side effects may include:
Kick in the balls
Slap in the face
major pms comming your way
and blue balls!
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
While all of these r funny. N I also use da i kno lines n she laughs. Sum of dem will not talk to u again lol den again who cares she aint worth it