This girl I've been messing around with for a while....I guess she considers herself my girlfriend. She texts me about once a day asking if I miss her. How should I respond to this? Something ****y and funny I guess but I don't want to piss her off either.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Keeps texting she misses me
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dannyegg4575
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how about just a simple, "I know."
I got an email from a girl today asking if I missed her. I used the "I listen to goat play pool over salad two days ago' line. I have no idea what it means, but it's funny.DonS said:Mavrick's hit it on the head. It really doesn't matter what you say as long as you keep the frame. Whatever you do, don't go logical. In response to I miss you, I would probably try:
"About time you joined the crowd"
"Along with every other hottie"
"Of course you do, baby." I did this one yesterday.
"You're so in love with me"
"is this the infatuation or psycho phase you're in"
"I listen to goat play pool over salad two days ago:
You get the point; treat her like a little girl.
She emailed me back asking me what that means. I replied with "You know. Goat... Pool... Salad..."
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
traffic said:
lol good one
some other responses to increase attraction (if you want)
"nice.."
"you are so cute"
say nothing
"i like your ass as well"
"hrmm..
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some responses to decrease atrraction
none. if she's txting you this ****, she's infatuated by now
well if shes getting annoying reply with...
"how can I miss you when I'm with your Sister?
gr8 way to make her stop txting you
*side effects may include:
Kick in the balls
Slap in the face
major pms comming your way
and blue balls!
"how can I miss you when I'm with your Sister?
gr8 way to make her stop txting you
*side effects may include:
Kick in the balls
Slap in the face
major pms comming your way
and blue balls!
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
While all of these r funny. N I also use da i kno lines n she laughs. Sum of dem will not talk to u again lol den again who cares she aint worth it