"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Keeps bringing up "youre interested in me"

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Hey guys,

this girl keeps saying "I know youre interested in me" and wants me to go to the bars with her. funny thing is that she already tried to put me in the friend zone. and I moved on, yet she keeps bringing it up. I belive shes into me? yes or no?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Probably just a validation seeking wh0re. If I agreed to go out to a bar with a chick like this, I would worry about her using me for free drinks and advice on other dudes. Hey, chicks are like that.

Decline her invitations, get her really frustrated, then try to hit her up for a late night booty call. I've been in your situation before and have done that with great success.
 
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Take her out to the bars. Hit on other girls in front of her. This will make her jealous.
 
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Tell her introduce you to other girls, and train her to be your pivot. This is what I'm doing with every girl I know. It's getting a couple of them interested in me too! Social proof.
 
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horaholic said:
Tell her introduce you to other girls, and train her to be your pivot. This is what I'm doing with every girl I know. It's getting a couple of them interested in me too! Social proof.
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This is a great idea too. You just have to find a girl who is willing to spend a weekend here and there helping you get laid, and that can be tricky.

I have one female friend in particular who is an INCREDIBLE wingman. I'm talking I get laid at least 3 out of 4 times when we go out together. She's one of those that never meets a stranger, so she establishes rapport QUICK and talks me up big. Even tells them I'm good in bed (we hooked up back in 2006 before she got a serious BF).

A willing pivot is definitely a good ally to have.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mtlwlu said:
Hey guys,

this girl keeps saying "I know youre interested in me" and wants me to go to the bars with her. funny thing is that she already tried to put me in the friend zone. and I moved on, yet she keeps bringing it up. I belive shes into me? yes or no?
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If you really want to see what's up with her tell her she's buying the drinks for the night. If she buys the first couple rounds then you can buy a round if you want. A girl that's interested in you will buy you drinks.
 
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easy...get her real drunk then overflow her with questions like the levees did when hurrican katrina hit...
 
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