"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hey guys,

this girl keeps saying "I know youre interested in me" and wants me to go to the bars with her. funny thing is that she already tried to put me in the friend zone. and I moved on, yet she keeps bringing it up. I belive shes into me? yes or no?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Probably just a validation seeking wh0re. If I agreed to go out to a bar with a chick like this, I would worry about her using me for free drinks and advice on other dudes. Hey, chicks are like that.

Decline her invitations, get her really frustrated, then try to hit her up for a late night booty call. I've been in your situation before and have done that with great success.
 
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Take her out to the bars. Hit on other girls in front of her. This will make her jealous.
 
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Tell her introduce you to other girls, and train her to be your pivot. This is what I'm doing with every girl I know. It's getting a couple of them interested in me too! Social proof.
 
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horaholic said:
Tell her introduce you to other girls, and train her to be your pivot. This is what I'm doing with every girl I know. It's getting a couple of them interested in me too! Social proof.
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This is a great idea too. You just have to find a girl who is willing to spend a weekend here and there helping you get laid, and that can be tricky.

I have one female friend in particular who is an INCREDIBLE wingman. I'm talking I get laid at least 3 out of 4 times when we go out together. She's one of those that never meets a stranger, so she establishes rapport QUICK and talks me up big. Even tells them I'm good in bed (we hooked up back in 2006 before she got a serious BF).

A willing pivot is definitely a good ally to have.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mtlwlu said:
Hey guys,

this girl keeps saying "I know youre interested in me" and wants me to go to the bars with her. funny thing is that she already tried to put me in the friend zone. and I moved on, yet she keeps bringing it up. I belive shes into me? yes or no?
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If you really want to see what's up with her tell her she's buying the drinks for the night. If she buys the first couple rounds then you can buy a round if you want. A girl that's interested in you will buy you drinks.
 
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easy...get her real drunk then overflow her with questions like the levees did when hurrican katrina hit...
 
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