“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Keeps bringing up "youre interested in me"

mtlwlu

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Hey guys,

this girl keeps saying "I know youre interested in me" and wants me to go to the bars with her. funny thing is that she already tried to put me in the friend zone. and I moved on, yet she keeps bringing it up. I belive shes into me? yes or no?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AKA FLEX

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Probably just a validation seeking wh0re. If I agreed to go out to a bar with a chick like this, I would worry about her using me for free drinks and advice on other dudes. Hey, chicks are like that.

Decline her invitations, get her really frustrated, then try to hit her up for a late night booty call. I've been in your situation before and have done that with great success.
 

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Take her out to the bars. Hit on other girls in front of her. This will make her jealous.
 

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Tell her introduce you to other girls, and train her to be your pivot. This is what I'm doing with every girl I know. It's getting a couple of them interested in me too! Social proof.
 

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horaholic said:
Tell her introduce you to other girls, and train her to be your pivot. This is what I'm doing with every girl I know. It's getting a couple of them interested in me too! Social proof.
This is a great idea too. You just have to find a girl who is willing to spend a weekend here and there helping you get laid, and that can be tricky.

I have one female friend in particular who is an INCREDIBLE wingman. I'm talking I get laid at least 3 out of 4 times when we go out together. She's one of those that never meets a stranger, so she establishes rapport QUICK and talks me up big. Even tells them I'm good in bed (we hooked up back in 2006 before she got a serious BF).

A willing pivot is definitely a good ally to have.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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armadon

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mtlwlu said:
Hey guys,

this girl keeps saying "I know youre interested in me" and wants me to go to the bars with her. funny thing is that she already tried to put me in the friend zone. and I moved on, yet she keeps bringing it up. I belive shes into me? yes or no?

If you really want to see what's up with her tell her she's buying the drinks for the night. If she buys the first couple rounds then you can buy a round if you want. A girl that's interested in you will buy you drinks.
 

Thatfeel21

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easy...get her real drunk then overflow her with questions like the levees did when hurrican katrina hit...
 
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