"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys,

this girl keeps saying "I know youre interested in me" and wants me to go to the bars with her. funny thing is that she already tried to put me in the friend zone. and I moved on, yet she keeps bringing it up. I belive shes into me? yes or no?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Probably just a validation seeking wh0re. If I agreed to go out to a bar with a chick like this, I would worry about her using me for free drinks and advice on other dudes. Hey, chicks are like that.

Decline her invitations, get her really frustrated, then try to hit her up for a late night booty call. I've been in your situation before and have done that with great success.
 
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Take her out to the bars. Hit on other girls in front of her. This will make her jealous.
 
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Tell her introduce you to other girls, and train her to be your pivot. This is what I'm doing with every girl I know. It's getting a couple of them interested in me too! Social proof.
 
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horaholic said:
Tell her introduce you to other girls, and train her to be your pivot. This is what I'm doing with every girl I know. It's getting a couple of them interested in me too! Social proof.
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This is a great idea too. You just have to find a girl who is willing to spend a weekend here and there helping you get laid, and that can be tricky.

I have one female friend in particular who is an INCREDIBLE wingman. I'm talking I get laid at least 3 out of 4 times when we go out together. She's one of those that never meets a stranger, so she establishes rapport QUICK and talks me up big. Even tells them I'm good in bed (we hooked up back in 2006 before she got a serious BF).

A willing pivot is definitely a good ally to have.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mtlwlu said:
Hey guys,

this girl keeps saying "I know youre interested in me" and wants me to go to the bars with her. funny thing is that she already tried to put me in the friend zone. and I moved on, yet she keeps bringing it up. I belive shes into me? yes or no?
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If you really want to see what's up with her tell her she's buying the drinks for the night. If she buys the first couple rounds then you can buy a round if you want. A girl that's interested in you will buy you drinks.
 
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easy...get her real drunk then overflow her with questions like the levees did when hurrican katrina hit...
 
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