I have a question, i am 25 my girlfriend is 25. Me and my girlfriend in my opinion have fallen into a rut. She lives 1 hour away so when i drive up or she drives down all we ever seem to do on worknights is sit in, order food or watch a movie... we always have a blast when i have the weekends off and we can go out together but i need some ideas for weeknight dates or ideas to keep it interesting
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Keeping LTRS interesting
- Thread starter heater528
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
How long have you been together?
You've only been together since November and you're already in a rut??? At 25 years of age??? My god man, you should still be screwing like rabbits, not "looking" for things to do. Damn.
Can you imagine your relationship 10 years from now?
Can you imagine your relationship 10 years from now?