I have a question, i am 25 my girlfriend is 25. Me and my girlfriend in my opinion have fallen into a rut. She lives 1 hour away so when i drive up or she drives down all we ever seem to do on worknights is sit in, order food or watch a movie... we always have a blast when i have the weekends off and we can go out together but i need some ideas for weeknight dates or ideas to keep it interesting
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Keeping LTRS interesting
- Thread starter heater528
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
How long have you been together?
You've only been together since November and you're already in a rut??? At 25 years of age??? My god man, you should still be screwing like rabbits, not "looking" for things to do. Damn.
Can you imagine your relationship 10 years from now?
Can you imagine your relationship 10 years from now?