I have a question, i am 25 my girlfriend is 25. Me and my girlfriend in my opinion have fallen into a rut. She lives 1 hour away so when i drive up or she drives down all we ever seem to do on worknights is sit in, order food or watch a movie... we always have a blast when i have the weekends off and we can go out together but i need some ideas for weeknight dates or ideas to keep it interesting
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Keeping LTRS interesting
- Thread starter heater528
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
How long have you been together?
You've only been together since November and you're already in a rut??? At 25 years of age??? My god man, you should still be screwing like rabbits, not "looking" for things to do. Damn.
Can you imagine your relationship 10 years from now?
Can you imagine your relationship 10 years from now?