I have a question, i am 25 my girlfriend is 25. Me and my girlfriend in my opinion have fallen into a rut. She lives 1 hour away so when i drive up or she drives down all we ever seem to do on worknights is sit in, order food or watch a movie... we always have a blast when i have the weekends off and we can go out together but i need some ideas for weeknight dates or ideas to keep it interesting
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Keeping LTRS interesting
- Thread starter heater528
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
How long have you been together?
You've only been together since November and you're already in a rut??? At 25 years of age??? My god man, you should still be screwing like rabbits, not "looking" for things to do. Damn.
Can you imagine your relationship 10 years from now?
Can you imagine your relationship 10 years from now?