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I have constantly read when talking to a girl you are interested in try to keep the convo sexual, my question is how do you do that without coming off as a perv or coming off way too strong?
 

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Assuming you're getting the right vibe from the girl (eye contact, smile, laughter, maybe some kino), I'd say a mix between an aura of confidence and mystery mixed with some well-timed innuendos will keep a conversation sexual. Subtlety is key, but escalate as you feel appropriate.
 
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keep the conversation sexual?? that seems like a bad idea... are you sure they didn't mean to keep your sexuality alive and present in the conversation? that makes more sense....
I always have a sexual vibe, but above all else I usually have a respectful vibe as well. So i'm never going to walk about to a girl a strike up a conversation on her favirote position, or if she likes her ***** ate.
Remember, Keep yourself sexual, sexy, mature... a man! But I dont think literally keeping the convo sexual is the way to go.

can you post some references of where you have been reading this anyhow?
 
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Randallpink83 said:
keep the conversation sexual?? that seems like a bad idea... are you sure they didn't mean to keep your sexuality alive and present in the conversation? that makes more sense....
I always have a sexual vibe, but above all else I usually have a respectful vibe as well. So i'm never going to walk about to a girl a strike up a conversation on her favirote position, or if she likes her ***** ate.
Remember, Keep yourself sexual, sexy, mature... a man! But I dont think literally keeping the convo sexual is the way to go.

can you post some references of where you have been reading this anyhow?
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I agree with you. I didn't mean to say keep the conversation literally sexual ("So...how about the weather? Do you swallow?"), but keep the feeling sexual. An unsaid tension is best, imho.
 
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If he's asking that question, I think he's having trouble how to convert a normal conversation into one that hints at sex.
 

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