"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Keeping it sexual

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I have constantly read when talking to a girl you are interested in try to keep the convo sexual, my question is how do you do that without coming off as a perv or coming off way too strong?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Assuming you're getting the right vibe from the girl (eye contact, smile, laughter, maybe some kino), I'd say a mix between an aura of confidence and mystery mixed with some well-timed innuendos will keep a conversation sexual. Subtlety is key, but escalate as you feel appropriate.
 
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keep the conversation sexual?? that seems like a bad idea... are you sure they didn't mean to keep your sexuality alive and present in the conversation? that makes more sense....
I always have a sexual vibe, but above all else I usually have a respectful vibe as well. So i'm never going to walk about to a girl a strike up a conversation on her favirote position, or if she likes her ***** ate.
Remember, Keep yourself sexual, sexy, mature... a man! But I dont think literally keeping the convo sexual is the way to go.

can you post some references of where you have been reading this anyhow?
 
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Randallpink83 said:
keep the conversation sexual?? that seems like a bad idea... are you sure they didn't mean to keep your sexuality alive and present in the conversation? that makes more sense....
I always have a sexual vibe, but above all else I usually have a respectful vibe as well. So i'm never going to walk about to a girl a strike up a conversation on her favirote position, or if she likes her ***** ate.
Remember, Keep yourself sexual, sexy, mature... a man! But I dont think literally keeping the convo sexual is the way to go.

can you post some references of where you have been reading this anyhow?
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I agree with you. I didn't mean to say keep the conversation literally sexual ("So...how about the weather? Do you swallow?"), but keep the feeling sexual. An unsaid tension is best, imho.
 
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If he's asking that question, I think he's having trouble how to convert a normal conversation into one that hints at sex.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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