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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Keeping it sexual

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I have constantly read when talking to a girl you are interested in try to keep the convo sexual, my question is how do you do that without coming off as a perv or coming off way too strong?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Assuming you're getting the right vibe from the girl (eye contact, smile, laughter, maybe some kino), I'd say a mix between an aura of confidence and mystery mixed with some well-timed innuendos will keep a conversation sexual. Subtlety is key, but escalate as you feel appropriate.
 

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keep the conversation sexual?? that seems like a bad idea... are you sure they didn't mean to keep your sexuality alive and present in the conversation? that makes more sense....
I always have a sexual vibe, but above all else I usually have a respectful vibe as well. So i'm never going to walk about to a girl a strike up a conversation on her favirote position, or if she likes her ***** ate.
Remember, Keep yourself sexual, sexy, mature... a man! But I dont think literally keeping the convo sexual is the way to go.

can you post some references of where you have been reading this anyhow?
 

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Randallpink83 said:
keep the conversation sexual?? that seems like a bad idea... are you sure they didn't mean to keep your sexuality alive and present in the conversation? that makes more sense....
I always have a sexual vibe, but above all else I usually have a respectful vibe as well. So i'm never going to walk about to a girl a strike up a conversation on her favirote position, or if she likes her ***** ate.
Remember, Keep yourself sexual, sexy, mature... a man! But I dont think literally keeping the convo sexual is the way to go.

can you post some references of where you have been reading this anyhow?
I agree with you. I didn't mean to say keep the conversation literally sexual ("So...how about the weather? Do you swallow?"), but keep the feeling sexual. An unsaid tension is best, imho.
 

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If he's asking that question, I think he's having trouble how to convert a normal conversation into one that hints at sex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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