"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Confident1

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How does one convey their interest in a girl without outright complimenting her or seeming too needy?

I have been working on the kino and I dabble in ****y and funny, but usually I take the ****y part too far and it seems like I am insulting them, though I never apologize anyway.

I ask this because I don't want to fall into the friendship category anymore.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well to pull off ****y and funny properly you have to smile or something so sh eknows that you aren't too serious. Most of my ****y is self promotion but I do it naturally before I even found this site. lol. But yeah you just have to improve your game and read the attraction part of the bible. that's about my favorite section because I already have everything else mastered.
 
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I'm sure everyone is sick of me by now...

ok I am hoping someone will read this. I just got home from hanging out with the girl I have been "working." And yet nothing has happened. Then she said something that has pretty much got me going insane, she said: "I don't think I have ever seen you flirt with anyone."

And she is right, I don't flirt. I just don't know how. I have been thinking about it and I am as ****y as they come I put myself up and tell girls how I am too good for them and ****, but I don't know how to get across my interest in them. And please, don't tell me kino, I am working/ trying that. I have read the bible on kino. Is there a section on FLIRTING.

I need a crash course, in, as odd as this sounds, something that comes naturally to everybody it seems. I need a crash course in flirting.

Thank you.
 
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