"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How does one convey their interest in a girl without outright complimenting her or seeming too needy?

I have been working on the kino and I dabble in ****y and funny, but usually I take the ****y part too far and it seems like I am insulting them, though I never apologize anyway.

I ask this because I don't want to fall into the friendship category anymore.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well to pull off ****y and funny properly you have to smile or something so sh eknows that you aren't too serious. Most of my ****y is self promotion but I do it naturally before I even found this site. lol. But yeah you just have to improve your game and read the attraction part of the bible. that's about my favorite section because I already have everything else mastered.
 
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I'm sure everyone is sick of me by now...

ok I am hoping someone will read this. I just got home from hanging out with the girl I have been "working." And yet nothing has happened. Then she said something that has pretty much got me going insane, she said: "I don't think I have ever seen you flirt with anyone."

And she is right, I don't flirt. I just don't know how. I have been thinking about it and I am as ****y as they come I put myself up and tell girls how I am too good for them and ****, but I don't know how to get across my interest in them. And please, don't tell me kino, I am working/ trying that. I have read the bible on kino. Is there a section on FLIRTING.

I need a crash course, in, as odd as this sounds, something that comes naturally to everybody it seems. I need a crash course in flirting.

Thank you.
 
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