"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Keeping Girls Attracted

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How does one convey their interest in a girl without outright complimenting her or seeming too needy?

I have been working on the kino and I dabble in ****y and funny, but usually I take the ****y part too far and it seems like I am insulting them, though I never apologize anyway.

I ask this because I don't want to fall into the friendship category anymore.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well to pull off ****y and funny properly you have to smile or something so sh eknows that you aren't too serious. Most of my ****y is self promotion but I do it naturally before I even found this site. lol. But yeah you just have to improve your game and read the attraction part of the bible. that's about my favorite section because I already have everything else mastered.
 
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I'm sure everyone is sick of me by now...

ok I am hoping someone will read this. I just got home from hanging out with the girl I have been "working." And yet nothing has happened. Then she said something that has pretty much got me going insane, she said: "I don't think I have ever seen you flirt with anyone."

And she is right, I don't flirt. I just don't know how. I have been thinking about it and I am as ****y as they come I put myself up and tell girls how I am too good for them and ****, but I don't know how to get across my interest in them. And please, don't tell me kino, I am working/ trying that. I have read the bible on kino. Is there a section on FLIRTING.

I need a crash course, in, as odd as this sounds, something that comes naturally to everybody it seems. I need a crash course in flirting.

Thank you.
 
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