Fly By Night
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...when they look away when you look at them.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Keeping eye contact is hard...
- Thread starter Fly By Night
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HalfAddict
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That is the time to approach, if you make solid eye contact and she quickly looks away it is usually a good sign. Looking down after eye contact is commonly considered a sign of submission.
http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/parts_body_language/eyes_body_language.htm
There is lots of material to be found on the subject. I make it a point to look everyone in the eye, or at least try, it is some of the greatest non-verbal communication you can master.
http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/parts_body_language/eyes_body_language.htm
There is lots of material to be found on the subject. I make it a point to look everyone in the eye, or at least try, it is some of the greatest non-verbal communication you can master.
Fly By Night
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Thanks for that info, normally when people look away, I look away as well assuming that they do not want to associate with me or feel as if it will be intimidating to them.
I was able to make an approach the other day, but it didn't go anywhere. After reflecting on it, I realized that I made almost no eye contact. Lesson learned, when I approach my next target, I will make firm (but not intimidating) eye contact with her.
I was able to make an approach the other day, but it didn't go anywhere. After reflecting on it, I realized that I made almost no eye contact. Lesson learned, when I approach my next target, I will make firm (but not intimidating) eye contact with her.
cablecow15
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Thats a very good sign
here is a very basic way to read eye contact
1 she looks down (this is like a dog rolling over , submission)
2 she looks up ( dont bother with this one , this is like her rolling her eyes at you)
3 looking to the side ( try to notice if her eyes were slightly up or slightly down as they cut to the side means slight interest or disinterest I usually continue eye contact and see if she gives me anymore signs)
4 multiple quick looks at you then breaking eye contact as soon as your eyes meet hers ( this is called the shy geisha like a shy little asian girl every time she sees you she cant help but look away good sign here )
keep solid eye contact , but dont try to burn a hole in her if shes not looking at you
(I did this once at a club and the girls friend noticed and said "you can just ask her to dance you dont have to keep staring at her" I was a little befuddled laughed it off and asked her for a dance , we danced and i got her number , but nothing came of it ) long story short keep bursts of strong eye contact , not hungry stares lol
here is a very basic way to read eye contact
1 she looks down (this is like a dog rolling over , submission)
2 she looks up ( dont bother with this one , this is like her rolling her eyes at you)
3 looking to the side ( try to notice if her eyes were slightly up or slightly down as they cut to the side means slight interest or disinterest I usually continue eye contact and see if she gives me anymore signs)
4 multiple quick looks at you then breaking eye contact as soon as your eyes meet hers ( this is called the shy geisha like a shy little asian girl every time she sees you she cant help but look away good sign here )
keep solid eye contact , but dont try to burn a hole in her if shes not looking at you
(I did this once at a club and the girls friend noticed and said "you can just ask her to dance you dont have to keep staring at her" I was a little befuddled laughed it off and asked her for a dance , we danced and i got her number , but nothing came of it ) long story short keep bursts of strong eye contact , not hungry stares lol
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
HalfAddict
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That is the thing Fly, it is a little intimidating and there is nothing wrong with that. Like Cable said, just don't burn a hole in them.
I like to throw a sly smile and a little wave in myself, sometimes a wink even..
I like to throw a sly smile and a little wave in myself, sometimes a wink even..
Demonicale
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I'm alway's 100% confident in doing it in clubs,bars or a saturday night.
But in the hospital where i work we have looong corridoors, and i can't keep it up as i'm walking down them as i think it's alil creepy lol.
But if i shy away it's bad too
But in the hospital where i work we have looong corridoors, and i can't keep it up as i'm walking down them as i think it's alil creepy lol.
But if i shy away it's bad too
bcolon
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I work at a hospital too. And I know what your talking about. It's very awkward at first when you see someone you find attractive walking towards you from afar. They look at you and then when you two get close that's when for me it's either a quick "Hello" or "Good Morning". Pretty much all the girls will be very receptive and respond with a smile.Demonicale said:I'm alway's 100% confident in doing it in clubs,bars or a saturday night.
But in the hospital where i work we have looong corridoors, and i can't keep it up as i'm walking down them as i think it's alil creepy lol.
But if i shy away it's bad too
Keep at it. I think honestly working at the hospital is best for people who deal with social anxiety or have a hard time approaching people. Because your pretty much forced to there.
Demonicale
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Actually it's so simple i can't believe i did'nt think of that, ok well i'll give it a shot and see what happens .. haha thanksbcolon said: