"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I promised myself that I would stop trying to get new girls. I Had a few drinks and set up three more dates from OLD. You can do it too. Be direct, ask for the date, don't ***** foot around. You are the prize......
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have missed reading your field reports old man. ;)

Post up some new ones.
 

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I promised myself that I would stop trying to get new girls. I Had a few drinks and set up three more dates from OLD. You can do it too. Be direct, ask for the date, don't ***** foot around. You are the prize......
You'll be fine....Just try to find a healthy balance of your personal pursuits and free time. Going out with women right now should be for your "recreational pleasure."
 

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DM, want to know what the next level to this is? Laughing at women and this whole "process."

Ultimately, this forum is not about women, but about us--and our uncontrollable desires, which inevitably control us. Take T? Desire (sex drive) times two.

Once you control the desire, you control the "game."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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I have missed reading your field reports old man. ;)

Post up some new ones.
I have nothing really to report. Just regular lays. I do have a f uck buddy that comes over twice a month. She has her kid two weeks out of the month. So every other wednesday she comes over. I start making out with her the second she comes through the door. No talking. I then proceed to make her *** until her legs shake and she can't stand.

I let her cuddle a little and send her on her way. Very little talking. What I like best about her is that she is a prolific squirter. She has store bought ti ts and several tatoos. She moans non stop whether I am f ucking her in the a ss or *****. I do wish she would visit more often but there are always other women.
 

dustmuffin

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DM, want to know what the next level to this is? Laughing at women and this whole "process."

Ultimately, this forum is not about women, but about us--and our uncontrollable desires, which inevitably control us. Take T? Desire (sex drive) times two.

Once you control the desire, you control the "game."
Yes, I get testosterone shots once a week. I am working on the laughing.
 
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