"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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I promised myself that I would stop trying to get new girls. I Had a few drinks and set up three more dates from OLD. You can do it too. Be direct, ask for the date, don't ***** foot around. You are the prize......
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have missed reading your field reports old man. ;)

Post up some new ones.
 

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I promised myself that I would stop trying to get new girls. I Had a few drinks and set up three more dates from OLD. You can do it too. Be direct, ask for the date, don't ***** foot around. You are the prize......
You'll be fine....Just try to find a healthy balance of your personal pursuits and free time. Going out with women right now should be for your "recreational pleasure."
 

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DM, want to know what the next level to this is? Laughing at women and this whole "process."

Ultimately, this forum is not about women, but about us--and our uncontrollable desires, which inevitably control us. Take T? Desire (sex drive) times two.

Once you control the desire, you control the "game."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dustmuffin

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I have missed reading your field reports old man. ;)

Post up some new ones.
I have nothing really to report. Just regular lays. I do have a f uck buddy that comes over twice a month. She has her kid two weeks out of the month. So every other wednesday she comes over. I start making out with her the second she comes through the door. No talking. I then proceed to make her *** until her legs shake and she can't stand.

I let her cuddle a little and send her on her way. Very little talking. What I like best about her is that she is a prolific squirter. She has store bought ti ts and several tatoos. She moans non stop whether I am f ucking her in the a ss or *****. I do wish she would visit more often but there are always other women.
 

dustmuffin

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DM, want to know what the next level to this is? Laughing at women and this whole "process."

Ultimately, this forum is not about women, but about us--and our uncontrollable desires, which inevitably control us. Take T? Desire (sex drive) times two.

Once you control the desire, you control the "game."
Yes, I get testosterone shots once a week. I am working on the laughing.
 
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