Never worked in the past; dont bother with it in the present. What I learned - and didnt realize at the time - is that bad-awful-heartless women exist out there, and theyre usually skanky-hot. Whenever this happened - the girl was NEVER keeping me around for non-selfish reasons. The insecure / low self esteem / fake hotties, especially LOVED the attention and ego boost. They needed it, even. It was so narcissistic that they could NOT engage with you in any way - unless they knew you wanted them. They needed that reassurance, and would chase you to get you to chase them. Teasing and flirting was the norm. It was a sick game, but they only cared about themselves, and got off on the power of rejecting others - after luring them into being wanted in the first place! These girls were very abusive and manipulative in general. The bad girls. Very bitter and angry, and out to get revenge and hurt others. Also: zero self-esteem and a huge ego.
Beyond that, keeping you around as a back-up plan, for sexual reasons, or using you in other ways... Some were so selfish and entitled that they would flat-out lie to your face about their intentions to keep you focused solely on them. The SO without benefits, if you will. Horrible.
But, no girl EVER changed their mind or interest level upon coming back post-rejection. They just wanted to make sure they got their way; that their interests were so secure; everyone was focused on them; etc - only to ***** and cry and play the victim when they couldnt control, manipulate, use, and play everyone. **** that ****.
This was ALWAYS the case with the troublesome types. It was their whole game; they were expert manipulators, and knew the game. It was always about control, options, etc. Never genuine; they werent afraid, unsure, distrusting, or not ready - which jerks are reknowned for having bull**** excuses for everything - only to act like spoiled children when they cant get their way.
Good girls never did this ****. Only the players and bad girls with selfish interests and ulterior motives. Some would even keep up the lying for months, and act like they were courting you, and you werent good enough / its your fault they only wanted sex - when it was their intentions all along.
But, lying, manipulative *******s are easy to spot these days, and follow similar behavioral patterns.
****, Im ranting.
TLDRFU: No. :cuss: