"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Keep Moving

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I once had the privilege of going bass fishing in a pro -am tournament with a pro bass angler.

Once, during our time on the water, I remarked to him " I suppose you have to be really patient to be a great angler in these tournaments"

I'll never forget his answer. He said, " No, actually I'm not patient at all, if I'm in water that isn't producing, I move on, find somewhere else"

Now I realize that we have all heard about how patient we must be with women..........and it's true, to a certain extent. They take a bit more time to feel comfortable with the way things are going, etc.

But it can be a huge mistake for any man to wait too long for a woman to " start coming through"........either by keeping dates, returning calls / texts, or even having sex.

So be patient, yes, but don't become an idiot about it. If she isn't showing genuine interest in you, then keep moving.

best of luck
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cheeks

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Even if she is showing genuine interest in you, keep moving. Get what you want out of her but don't stop the train. She'll lose attraction if you start to get comfortable.
 
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Agreed. I suppose I aim most of my advice here is to men just learning the ropes.

But yes, you get comfy, they think they own you.

I know I shouldn't say it, but I get so irritated seeing all the non stop threads from men asking " should I ask her this so and so" etc stuff.........

For cryin out loud, ditch her azz and move on lol
 
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