"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Keep Moving

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I once had the privilege of going bass fishing in a pro -am tournament with a pro bass angler.

Once, during our time on the water, I remarked to him " I suppose you have to be really patient to be a great angler in these tournaments"

I'll never forget his answer. He said, " No, actually I'm not patient at all, if I'm in water that isn't producing, I move on, find somewhere else"

Now I realize that we have all heard about how patient we must be with women..........and it's true, to a certain extent. They take a bit more time to feel comfortable with the way things are going, etc.

But it can be a huge mistake for any man to wait too long for a woman to " start coming through"........either by keeping dates, returning calls / texts, or even having sex.

So be patient, yes, but don't become an idiot about it. If she isn't showing genuine interest in you, then keep moving.

best of luck
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cheeks

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Even if she is showing genuine interest in you, keep moving. Get what you want out of her but don't stop the train. She'll lose attraction if you start to get comfortable.
 
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Agreed. I suppose I aim most of my advice here is to men just learning the ropes.

But yes, you get comfy, they think they own you.

I know I shouldn't say it, but I get so irritated seeing all the non stop threads from men asking " should I ask her this so and so" etc stuff.........

For cryin out loud, ditch her azz and move on lol
 
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