"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I once had the privilege of going bass fishing in a pro -am tournament with a pro bass angler.

Once, during our time on the water, I remarked to him " I suppose you have to be really patient to be a great angler in these tournaments"

I'll never forget his answer. He said, " No, actually I'm not patient at all, if I'm in water that isn't producing, I move on, find somewhere else"

Now I realize that we have all heard about how patient we must be with women..........and it's true, to a certain extent. They take a bit more time to feel comfortable with the way things are going, etc.

But it can be a huge mistake for any man to wait too long for a woman to " start coming through"........either by keeping dates, returning calls / texts, or even having sex.

So be patient, yes, but don't become an idiot about it. If she isn't showing genuine interest in you, then keep moving.

best of luck
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Even if she is showing genuine interest in you, keep moving. Get what you want out of her but don't stop the train. She'll lose attraction if you start to get comfortable.
 
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Agreed. I suppose I aim most of my advice here is to men just learning the ropes.

But yes, you get comfy, they think they own you.

I know I shouldn't say it, but I get so irritated seeing all the non stop threads from men asking " should I ask her this so and so" etc stuff.........

For cryin out loud, ditch her azz and move on lol
 
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