"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Keep matching with the same girl

Datinglife26

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Am I the only one this happens too lol

This girl already follows me on social media and we were exchanging texts with her asking me questions. Then she just didn't respond so I didn't do anything else.

Today I'm swiping on the toilet in work. And her profile comes up. I swipe right and it matches.

Haven't messaged her. Probably won't. Although a part of me wants to make fun of her constantly matching with me. (This is like the 4th time tbh)

I know she is probably getting the ego boost.

Anyone any similar stories?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lookatu

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Yes.
Once I match with someone and it fizzles at either end. I never swipe right on them again. And the fact that they are already on there again means they started a new account and/or is chasing perfection that isn't there and out there to waste your time(AW).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GreatHornedOwl

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She is still matching after she follows me on social where she stop responding.

The **** crawled up your vag? Are you this bitchy in real life pumpkin?
I didn't understand what you were confused about, that's all.

Why do you think something crawled up a vag I don't have? Did I use all caps? Did I put in a bunch of exclamation points to display hostility?

How you reacted to my post, and this confusion about what this woman is doing tells me everything I need to know about you. You have a long way to go my friend.
 

bat soup

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Am I the only one this happens too lol

This girl already follows me on social media and we were exchanging texts with her asking me questions. Then she just didn't respond so I didn't do anything else.

Today I'm swiping on the toilet in work. And her profile comes up. I swipe right and it matches.

Haven't messaged her. Probably won't. Although a part of me wants to make fun of her constantly matching with me. (This is like the 4th time tbh)

I know she is probably getting the ego boost.

Anyone any similar stories?
What's happening is she's swiping right on everyone. That's why you always match. Then she tries to take advantage of the guys she matches with for free food and drink and, if they don't play ball, she unmatches them.
 

RickTheToad

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Am I the only one this happens too lol

This girl already follows me on social media and we were exchanging texts with her asking me questions. Then she just didn't respond so I didn't do anything else.

Today I'm swiping on the toilet in work. And her profile comes up. I swipe right and it matches.

Haven't messaged her. Probably won't. Although a part of me wants to make fun of her constantly matching with me. (This is like the 4th time tbh)

I know she is probably getting the ego boost.

Anyone any similar stories?
Maybe it's the universe telling you something...
 
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