"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Keep In Mind - When Pedestalling / Plates are low

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First off- thanks to all of you who post great advice. I'm a recovering AFC in his first few months of DJ training.

A thought that all young DJs need to have imprinted on the inside of their eyelids for dealing with flakes, rejection, etc.

I'm the motherf***in CATCH. Not her.

Repeat that a few times a day, and your attitude will follow.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm the motherf***in CATCH. Not her.

correct!! how would you break it to the girl ( in gentle words) , lol
 
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^^^You don't tell a girl. You show her.
 
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Actions are stronger than words.. care to give examples?
 
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zorg198 said:
Actions are stronger than words.. care to give examples?
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f4ck *****es, get money. Disappear. Come back with a tattoo on your face, bloodstains on your pants, a stack of hundred dollar bills, and a new social circle.

Ignore

Pursue

Ignore

Disappear

Pursue

Repeat
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
 
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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
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Right on!:up:
 
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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
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That's pretty damn good! *writes down notes*
 
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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
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:up:
 
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