"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Keep In Mind - When Pedestalling / Plates are low

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First off- thanks to all of you who post great advice. I'm a recovering AFC in his first few months of DJ training.

A thought that all young DJs need to have imprinted on the inside of their eyelids for dealing with flakes, rejection, etc.

I'm the motherf***in CATCH. Not her.

Repeat that a few times a day, and your attitude will follow.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm the motherf***in CATCH. Not her.

correct!! how would you break it to the girl ( in gentle words) , lol
 
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^^^You don't tell a girl. You show her.
 
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Actions are stronger than words.. care to give examples?
 
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zorg198 said:
Actions are stronger than words.. care to give examples?
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f4ck *****es, get money. Disappear. Come back with a tattoo on your face, bloodstains on your pants, a stack of hundred dollar bills, and a new social circle.

Ignore

Pursue

Ignore

Disappear

Pursue

Repeat
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
 
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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
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Right on!:up:
 
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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
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That's pretty damn good! *writes down notes*
 
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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
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:up:
 
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