"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Keep In Mind - When Pedestalling / Plates are low

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First off- thanks to all of you who post great advice. I'm a recovering AFC in his first few months of DJ training.

A thought that all young DJs need to have imprinted on the inside of their eyelids for dealing with flakes, rejection, etc.

I'm the motherf***in CATCH. Not her.

Repeat that a few times a day, and your attitude will follow.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm the motherf***in CATCH. Not her.

correct!! how would you break it to the girl ( in gentle words) , lol
 
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^^^You don't tell a girl. You show her.
 
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Actions are stronger than words.. care to give examples?
 
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zorg198 said:
Actions are stronger than words.. care to give examples?
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f4ck *****es, get money. Disappear. Come back with a tattoo on your face, bloodstains on your pants, a stack of hundred dollar bills, and a new social circle.

Ignore

Pursue

Ignore

Disappear

Pursue

Repeat
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
 
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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
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Right on!:up:
 
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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
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That's pretty damn good! *writes down notes*
 
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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
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:up:
 
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