"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Keep In Mind - When Pedestalling / Plates are low

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First off- thanks to all of you who post great advice. I'm a recovering AFC in his first few months of DJ training.

A thought that all young DJs need to have imprinted on the inside of their eyelids for dealing with flakes, rejection, etc.

I'm the motherf***in CATCH. Not her.

Repeat that a few times a day, and your attitude will follow.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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zorg198

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I'm the motherf***in CATCH. Not her.

correct!! how would you break it to the girl ( in gentle words) , lol
 

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^^^You don't tell a girl. You show her.
 

zorg198

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Actions are stronger than words.. care to give examples?
 

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zorg198 said:
Actions are stronger than words.. care to give examples?

f4ck *****es, get money. Disappear. Come back with a tattoo on your face, bloodstains on your pants, a stack of hundred dollar bills, and a new social circle.

Ignore

Pursue

Ignore

Disappear

Pursue

Repeat
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
 

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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
Right on!:up:
 

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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
That's pretty damn good! *writes down notes*
 

zorg198

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MisterD said:
The way i look at it is; we're required to be all these things right? charming, funny, confident, masculine, etc

she just has to be hot.

if a girl flakes or isnt attracted to me i feel for her.

it's much easier for me to find just another hot chick who brings nothing to the table but a vagina than it is for her to find another guy like me.

well that's the mindset i have, anyway.

so if a girl isnt feeling me for whatever reason i'm just kind of like "really? wow lol ok. well good luck then"
:up:
 
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