"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lordlaxative

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I've really been using this technique a lot, and I want to know what you DJs think of it.

Basically I play a lot of guessing games with girls. Like when they ask me a question, sometimes I make them guess the answer. I especially do this with my girlfriend. For example, she'll ask me who I took home from a certain function that she couldn't attend. I make her guess. Every now and then, I even take it so far as to give her 3 guesses and if she can't get it in 3, I hang up, sign off, go talk to someone else, etc. If she does guess it I continue to talk with her. It drives her nuts. It seems to be good because I think it shows that I am in control and I am the prize for guessing right. What do you DJs think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Overdone, extreme and childish.... But I have never tried so I cannot comment really.
 

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I definitely think it intrigues them a bit. But like anything else in life, too much isn't good.



PIMP
 

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I like it.

Its all about HOW you pull it off. Its never about WHAT you're actually doing. You could say or do just about anything to a girl, depending on HOW you do it (tone of voice, your facial expressions, the context, how confident you are, mannerisms etc).

This technique is not something i'd do all the time, but it has its time and place.
 

Don of Truth

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Originally posted by Lordlaxative
I've really been using this technique a lot, and I want to know what you DJs think of it.
Ahhhh....the joy of the guessing game.
Such FUN !
As always, use in moderation!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree, moderation is the key. Too much of that and you'll just be an annoying punk.
 

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So let me get this straight. You walk away and blow your chance with a woman because she doesn't guess correctly?

It doesn't sound like a good move to me, unless they come chasing after you. But somehow I can't picture that happening.
 

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Sorry, I thought you did this in general, not just with your girlfriend. But even so, I'm sure it will just annoy her before too long.
 

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I wouldnt use it a lot, but I guess it could be useful in the right situation. but I wouldnt be a dic about it. I like the indirect think, it keeps em guessing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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