"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lordlaxative

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I've really been using this technique a lot, and I want to know what you DJs think of it.

Basically I play a lot of guessing games with girls. Like when they ask me a question, sometimes I make them guess the answer. I especially do this with my girlfriend. For example, she'll ask me who I took home from a certain function that she couldn't attend. I make her guess. Every now and then, I even take it so far as to give her 3 guesses and if she can't get it in 3, I hang up, sign off, go talk to someone else, etc. If she does guess it I continue to talk with her. It drives her nuts. It seems to be good because I think it shows that I am in control and I am the prize for guessing right. What do you DJs think?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Overdone, extreme and childish.... But I have never tried so I cannot comment really.
 

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I definitely think it intrigues them a bit. But like anything else in life, too much isn't good.



PIMP
 

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I like it.

Its all about HOW you pull it off. Its never about WHAT you're actually doing. You could say or do just about anything to a girl, depending on HOW you do it (tone of voice, your facial expressions, the context, how confident you are, mannerisms etc).

This technique is not something i'd do all the time, but it has its time and place.
 

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Originally posted by Lordlaxative
I've really been using this technique a lot, and I want to know what you DJs think of it.
Ahhhh....the joy of the guessing game.
Such FUN !
As always, use in moderation!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I agree, moderation is the key. Too much of that and you'll just be an annoying punk.
 

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So let me get this straight. You walk away and blow your chance with a woman because she doesn't guess correctly?

It doesn't sound like a good move to me, unless they come chasing after you. But somehow I can't picture that happening.
 

Dirtheart

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Sorry, I thought you did this in general, not just with your girlfriend. But even so, I'm sure it will just annoy her before too long.
 

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I wouldnt use it a lot, but I guess it could be useful in the right situation. but I wouldnt be a dic about it. I like the indirect think, it keeps em guessing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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