"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Themanthatcan

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Ok.So this girl I know was flirting with me and I made a comment to my friend about how i just emptied my change in my wallet and to feel how much lighter it was.He feels it and i mess around and throw it at her hands resting on her purse.She gets the wallet, takes a 100 doller food credit card, and plays keep away.After the first 30 sec. she seemed flirtatious then she got all mad at me after about a min..............for wanting my wallet back and trying to get it..............WHAT?! Noone does that!You don't take it, flirt, then get all mad cause I want it back.My only guess as to why she acted like this is she wanted me to just not care?act cool and let her mess with it untill she gave it back.This is the second time it's happened.And she only takes expensive items.............Advice?

She even made the comment:"Stop acting like your 2!You'll get it back eventually!"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Golddigger?







Or better yet plastic digger. :crackup:
 

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Actually.I just remember I said this to her:

Me:That card is worth more than your life!
Her:Now I'm definatly not giving it back!
Me:Yeah, well the truth hurts!Card please!

That might make her mad.Who knows.
 
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Themanthatcan said:
Actually.I just remember I said this to her:

Me:That card is worth more than your life!
Her:Now I'm definatly not giving it back!
Me:Yeah, well the truth hurts!Card please!

That might make her mad.Who knows.
Almost your entire conversation seems pointless unless you're looking for rapport.. you both know what you REALLY want. But it's only upto YOU to go for it.... so buddy, whats it gonna be?
 

Themanthatcan

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Yah.But I'm almost positive she's just wanting the attention.I mean we already kissed,ect then it just kinda died off.I'm not revolving my little world around her anymore.I guess going from alot of attention to I don't give a crap can come off as mean.Any advice on how to attract the witty,playing hard to get, kinda girl?(her)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Right now in a jungle somewhere some cheeky little female monkey is stealing a banana from a cute boy monkey in the hope he'll punish her with his monkey c0ck.
 

Themanthatcan

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ima str8 up pimp said:
Almost your entire conversation seems pointless unless you're looking for rapport.. you both know what you REALLY want. But it's only upto YOU to go for it.... so buddy, whats it gonna be?
It's definatly going to be my "Moe's" Card. =)
 

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Nighthawk said:
Right now in a jungle somewhere some cheeky little female monkey is stealing a banana from a cute boy monkey in the hope he'll punish her with his monkey c0ck.
..................I'm sorry?
 

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Ah you rejected her already? Chicks can be pretty annoying in that situation, getting increasingly desperate for any attention, good or bad. LJBF her.

You get the witty, hard-to-get type by out-witting and out-hard-to-getting them.
 

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Nighthawk said:
Ah you rejected her already? Chicks can be pretty annoying in that situation, getting increasingly desperate for any attention, good or bad. LJBF her.

You get the witty, hard-to-get type by out-witting and out-hard-to-getting them.

Good advice.That's the plan.But De-AFCing is hard work......Did I reject her?Not yet unless you consider the whole "Card is worth more than your life" thing, rejection.But we HAVE kissed.And we DID have something going there for a while.So.Who knows.Play it cool?Ignore her?(She's a grade higher than me too if that makes a diff. guys)Sometimes it seems like I'm trying to win over a Don Juanita or something. :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It was a perfect time to pull out the ring for some WRESTLING, you could've got some great kino going on.
 

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Distant Light said:
It was a perfect time to pull out the ring for some WRESTLING, you could've got some great kino going on.
We were on a bus.That's what I normally do.Shes REALLY violent."playfully" bites me and hits me........Only......as hard as she can............(I have scars)I usually say something like "Yeah............I'm not really into the whole S and M thing......."Playful bitting is one thing.But when you start to bleed I think You have crossed the line......(am i right?).
 

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Themanthatcan said:
We were on a bus.That's what I normally do.Shes REALLY violent."playfully" bites me and hits me........Only......as hard as she can............(I have scars)I usually say something like "Yeah............I'm not really into the whole S and M thing......."Playful bitting is one thing.But when you start to bleed I think You have crossed the line......(am i right?).
yep ur right. like i said. she's nuts
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Seems to me 1-she was trying to have some fun with you and 2-was trying to test you. Seeing just want she can get away with. Trust me, don't let her win those battles....especially in the beginning.
 
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