"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Themanthatcan

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Ok.So this girl I know was flirting with me and I made a comment to my friend about how i just emptied my change in my wallet and to feel how much lighter it was.He feels it and i mess around and throw it at her hands resting on her purse.She gets the wallet, takes a 100 doller food credit card, and plays keep away.After the first 30 sec. she seemed flirtatious then she got all mad at me after about a min..............for wanting my wallet back and trying to get it..............WHAT?! Noone does that!You don't take it, flirt, then get all mad cause I want it back.My only guess as to why she acted like this is she wanted me to just not care?act cool and let her mess with it untill she gave it back.This is the second time it's happened.And she only takes expensive items.............Advice?

She even made the comment:"Stop acting like your 2!You'll get it back eventually!"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Golddigger?







Or better yet plastic digger. :crackup:
 

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Actually.I just remember I said this to her:

Me:That card is worth more than your life!
Her:Now I'm definatly not giving it back!
Me:Yeah, well the truth hurts!Card please!

That might make her mad.Who knows.
 
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Themanthatcan said:
Actually.I just remember I said this to her:

Me:That card is worth more than your life!
Her:Now I'm definatly not giving it back!
Me:Yeah, well the truth hurts!Card please!

That might make her mad.Who knows.
Almost your entire conversation seems pointless unless you're looking for rapport.. you both know what you REALLY want. But it's only upto YOU to go for it.... so buddy, whats it gonna be?
 

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Yah.But I'm almost positive she's just wanting the attention.I mean we already kissed,ect then it just kinda died off.I'm not revolving my little world around her anymore.I guess going from alot of attention to I don't give a crap can come off as mean.Any advice on how to attract the witty,playing hard to get, kinda girl?(her)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Right now in a jungle somewhere some cheeky little female monkey is stealing a banana from a cute boy monkey in the hope he'll punish her with his monkey c0ck.
 

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ima str8 up pimp said:
Almost your entire conversation seems pointless unless you're looking for rapport.. you both know what you REALLY want. But it's only upto YOU to go for it.... so buddy, whats it gonna be?
It's definatly going to be my "Moe's" Card. =)
 

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Nighthawk said:
Right now in a jungle somewhere some cheeky little female monkey is stealing a banana from a cute boy monkey in the hope he'll punish her with his monkey c0ck.
..................I'm sorry?
 

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Ah you rejected her already? Chicks can be pretty annoying in that situation, getting increasingly desperate for any attention, good or bad. LJBF her.

You get the witty, hard-to-get type by out-witting and out-hard-to-getting them.
 

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Nighthawk said:
Ah you rejected her already? Chicks can be pretty annoying in that situation, getting increasingly desperate for any attention, good or bad. LJBF her.

You get the witty, hard-to-get type by out-witting and out-hard-to-getting them.

Good advice.That's the plan.But De-AFCing is hard work......Did I reject her?Not yet unless you consider the whole "Card is worth more than your life" thing, rejection.But we HAVE kissed.And we DID have something going there for a while.So.Who knows.Play it cool?Ignore her?(She's a grade higher than me too if that makes a diff. guys)Sometimes it seems like I'm trying to win over a Don Juanita or something. :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It was a perfect time to pull out the ring for some WRESTLING, you could've got some great kino going on.
 

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Distant Light said:
It was a perfect time to pull out the ring for some WRESTLING, you could've got some great kino going on.
We were on a bus.That's what I normally do.Shes REALLY violent."playfully" bites me and hits me........Only......as hard as she can............(I have scars)I usually say something like "Yeah............I'm not really into the whole S and M thing......."Playful bitting is one thing.But when you start to bleed I think You have crossed the line......(am i right?).
 

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Themanthatcan said:
We were on a bus.That's what I normally do.Shes REALLY violent."playfully" bites me and hits me........Only......as hard as she can............(I have scars)I usually say something like "Yeah............I'm not really into the whole S and M thing......."Playful bitting is one thing.But when you start to bleed I think You have crossed the line......(am i right?).
yep ur right. like i said. she's nuts
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seems to me 1-she was trying to have some fun with you and 2-was trying to test you. Seeing just want she can get away with. Trust me, don't let her win those battles....especially in the beginning.
 
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