"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok.So this girl I know was flirting with me and I made a comment to my friend about how i just emptied my change in my wallet and to feel how much lighter it was.He feels it and i mess around and throw it at her hands resting on her purse.She gets the wallet, takes a 100 doller food credit card, and plays keep away.After the first 30 sec. she seemed flirtatious then she got all mad at me after about a min..............for wanting my wallet back and trying to get it..............WHAT?! Noone does that!You don't take it, flirt, then get all mad cause I want it back.My only guess as to why she acted like this is she wanted me to just not care?act cool and let her mess with it untill she gave it back.This is the second time it's happened.And she only takes expensive items.............Advice?

She even made the comment:"Stop acting like your 2!You'll get it back eventually!"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Golddigger?







Or better yet plastic digger. :crackup:
 
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Actually.I just remember I said this to her:

Me:That card is worth more than your life!
Her:Now I'm definatly not giving it back!
Me:Yeah, well the truth hurts!Card please!

That might make her mad.Who knows.
 
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Themanthatcan said:
Actually.I just remember I said this to her:

Me:That card is worth more than your life!
Her:Now I'm definatly not giving it back!
Me:Yeah, well the truth hurts!Card please!

That might make her mad.Who knows.
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Almost your entire conversation seems pointless unless you're looking for rapport.. you both know what you REALLY want. But it's only upto YOU to go for it.... so buddy, whats it gonna be?
 
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Yah.But I'm almost positive she's just wanting the attention.I mean we already kissed,ect then it just kinda died off.I'm not revolving my little world around her anymore.I guess going from alot of attention to I don't give a crap can come off as mean.Any advice on how to attract the witty,playing hard to get, kinda girl?(her)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Right now in a jungle somewhere some cheeky little female monkey is stealing a banana from a cute boy monkey in the hope he'll punish her with his monkey c0ck.
 
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ima str8 up pimp said:
Almost your entire conversation seems pointless unless you're looking for rapport.. you both know what you REALLY want. But it's only upto YOU to go for it.... so buddy, whats it gonna be?
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It's definatly going to be my "Moe's" Card. =)
 
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Right now in a jungle somewhere some cheeky little female monkey is stealing a banana from a cute boy monkey in the hope he'll punish her with his monkey c0ck.
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..................I'm sorry?
 
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Ah you rejected her already? Chicks can be pretty annoying in that situation, getting increasingly desperate for any attention, good or bad. LJBF her.

You get the witty, hard-to-get type by out-witting and out-hard-to-getting them.
 
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Ah you rejected her already? Chicks can be pretty annoying in that situation, getting increasingly desperate for any attention, good or bad. LJBF her.

You get the witty, hard-to-get type by out-witting and out-hard-to-getting them.
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Good advice.That's the plan.But De-AFCing is hard work......Did I reject her?Not yet unless you consider the whole "Card is worth more than your life" thing, rejection.But we HAVE kissed.And we DID have something going there for a while.So.Who knows.Play it cool?Ignore her?(She's a grade higher than me too if that makes a diff. guys)Sometimes it seems like I'm trying to win over a Don Juanita or something. :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It was a perfect time to pull out the ring for some WRESTLING, you could've got some great kino going on.
 
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It was a perfect time to pull out the ring for some WRESTLING, you could've got some great kino going on.
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We were on a bus.That's what I normally do.Shes REALLY violent."playfully" bites me and hits me........Only......as hard as she can............(I have scars)I usually say something like "Yeah............I'm not really into the whole S and M thing......."Playful bitting is one thing.But when you start to bleed I think You have crossed the line......(am i right?).
 
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Themanthatcan said:
We were on a bus.That's what I normally do.Shes REALLY violent."playfully" bites me and hits me........Only......as hard as she can............(I have scars)I usually say something like "Yeah............I'm not really into the whole S and M thing......."Playful bitting is one thing.But when you start to bleed I think You have crossed the line......(am i right?).
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yep ur right. like i said. she's nuts
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Seems to me 1-she was trying to have some fun with you and 2-was trying to test you. Seeing just want she can get away with. Trust me, don't let her win those battles....especially in the beginning.
 
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