I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Originally posted by KarmaSutra
I think it's the girl from "You can't do that on television", Right Aleister?
Karma
Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Is that the Lizzy Maguire actress? The blonde kid?
y'all thought Kanye West was some little blonde girl??!:crackup:Originally posted by Skel
Tell her she sucks and to keep her opinion to herself!
does Bush really not care about black people?Originally posted by DJDamage
http://www.moronland.com/moronia/moron/446/
http://www.devilducky.com/media/36348/
Originally posted by DJ_in_making
y'all thought Kanye West was some little blonde girl??!:crackup:
that's inexcusable people....
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lets just imagine Wyldfire is a 17y.o. gal. Does this statement above fits the image? Perfectly. The same level of attention to celebrities, the same level of thinking what is cool: not really the music, no... it seems like it doesn't even matter. What matter is the fact that "it is going to be a mad house getting into work".Originally posted by Wyldfire
The local radio station is having him as a live guest in the studio. The radio station is directly across the street from my work. It's probably going to be a freaking mad house getting into work this morning.
I want 10 seconds of my life back. Idiot.Originally posted by al77
Lets just imagine Wyldfire is a 17y.o. gal. Does this statement above fits the image? Perfectly. The same level of attention to celebrities, the same level of thinking what is cool: not really the music, no... it seems like it doesn't even matter. What matter is the fact that "it is going to be a mad house getting into work".
How old are you Wyld? According to your 7000 somehting posts you .. you have seen life LOL