"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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K so I 'sorta' hooked up with a girl

faiNt`

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I posted earlier about this on an older thread, so here goes again. I'll be sure to make it short.

I'm 100% sure that she is not sexually experienced and 99% sure that she hasn't hooked up much or had many relationships etc.

I went to a dance with a girl who asked me; she was rubbing on me and I got hard. She kept going. We went back to her house to wait for my ride, and we were alone. I didn't make a move till my ride got there and I was walking out (f*ck me). We made out for a little, broke, said good-byes, and I left. We talked two days afterward at school, and nothing was weird; same as normal.

Where do I head from here? I have a feeling I won't see her for two weeks since Christmas vacation. I mean, I would call her and go hang but it's sorta far and I don't want to look desperate. Anyone ideas? :crazy:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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eaglez1177

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You HAVE to hang out with her over christmas vacation. If you feel uncomfortable with calling her, just txt her or talk to her on aim or facebook. It's not gonna seem desperate or weird at all. Trust me if you dont show an effort that you wanna hang out and get to know her, she's gonna totally forget about you.

If you feel implied to call her but cant really gather up the courage to do so, then just start out with some small talk by txting her or talking to her online. That way your not just calling right out of the blue.

Last thing you wanna do though is not talking to her, because then she probably will forget about you and will think you're not interested. Good luck and tell me how it goes!
 

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If you got her number from her, call her. Set up something specific and original.

If you got it from someone else, or her Facebook profile, ask her for it first, using whatever method you have to, or it will seem creepy. Say something like "Hey we should do something fun this week, give me your number so I can call you."
 
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