“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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K so I 'sorta' hooked up with a girl

faiNt`

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I posted earlier about this on an older thread, so here goes again. I'll be sure to make it short.

I'm 100% sure that she is not sexually experienced and 99% sure that she hasn't hooked up much or had many relationships etc.

I went to a dance with a girl who asked me; she was rubbing on me and I got hard. She kept going. We went back to her house to wait for my ride, and we were alone. I didn't make a move till my ride got there and I was walking out (f*ck me). We made out for a little, broke, said good-byes, and I left. We talked two days afterward at school, and nothing was weird; same as normal.

Where do I head from here? I have a feeling I won't see her for two weeks since Christmas vacation. I mean, I would call her and go hang but it's sorta far and I don't want to look desperate. Anyone ideas? :crazy:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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eaglez1177

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You HAVE to hang out with her over christmas vacation. If you feel uncomfortable with calling her, just txt her or talk to her on aim or facebook. It's not gonna seem desperate or weird at all. Trust me if you dont show an effort that you wanna hang out and get to know her, she's gonna totally forget about you.

If you feel implied to call her but cant really gather up the courage to do so, then just start out with some small talk by txting her or talking to her online. That way your not just calling right out of the blue.

Last thing you wanna do though is not talking to her, because then she probably will forget about you and will think you're not interested. Good luck and tell me how it goes!
 

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If you got her number from her, call her. Set up something specific and original.

If you got it from someone else, or her Facebook profile, ask her for it first, using whatever method you have to, or it will seem creepy. Say something like "Hey we should do something fun this week, give me your number so I can call you."
 
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