"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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K so I 'sorta' hooked up with a girl

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faiNt`

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I posted earlier about this on an older thread, so here goes again. I'll be sure to make it short.

I'm 100% sure that she is not sexually experienced and 99% sure that she hasn't hooked up much or had many relationships etc.

I went to a dance with a girl who asked me; she was rubbing on me and I got hard. She kept going. We went back to her house to wait for my ride, and we were alone. I didn't make a move till my ride got there and I was walking out (f*ck me). We made out for a little, broke, said good-byes, and I left. We talked two days afterward at school, and nothing was weird; same as normal.

Where do I head from here? I have a feeling I won't see her for two weeks since Christmas vacation. I mean, I would call her and go hang but it's sorta far and I don't want to look desperate. Anyone ideas? :crazy:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eaglez1177

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You HAVE to hang out with her over christmas vacation. If you feel uncomfortable with calling her, just txt her or talk to her on aim or facebook. It's not gonna seem desperate or weird at all. Trust me if you dont show an effort that you wanna hang out and get to know her, she's gonna totally forget about you.

If you feel implied to call her but cant really gather up the courage to do so, then just start out with some small talk by txting her or talking to her online. That way your not just calling right out of the blue.

Last thing you wanna do though is not talking to her, because then she probably will forget about you and will think you're not interested. Good luck and tell me how it goes!
 
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If you got her number from her, call her. Set up something specific and original.

If you got it from someone else, or her Facebook profile, ask her for it first, using whatever method you have to, or it will seem creepy. Say something like "Hey we should do something fun this week, give me your number so I can call you."
 
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