"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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K heres the deal.. how do I restart?

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Ok, so theres this Hb9 who plays games (I'm drunk btw), but most likely she does so because she was told by someone who wants us to fail that it will work on me. So anyways I messaged her a couple times and told her I was not into games and then decided later that I didn't wanna deal with it. (on facebook) After I told her I was not gonna pursue her, after abou 4 days, she blocked me. She works at my work and is a bit taller than I am and super nice but the games... I don't like. I was wondering on ideas of how to start this back up. I was thinking either start a new account and tell her to message me saying no more games or else ask for her number the next time I see her. Perfectly my type too... quiting smoking... (I am)... ****. I work with her btw.. big factory. IL wize though.. I'm most likely in extremely good shape. I worked this girl into the ground. Hmm either of my ideas make me look like I want her too much how could I come off hardly wanting her and still get her, while keeping her IL super high? Any ideas would be great.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wise words

Above all, Alphamale, do *not* do what you suggested in your own post.
 
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Obsidian said:
wise words

Above all, Alphamale, do *not* do what you suggested in your own post.
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No sh!t, take his advice, not your own.

Ok, you know what? Forget about her.

That's how you get better. You are dwelling on her too much, if you're not careful, she may become a one-itis. You need to work on your Inner Game. You need to understand women psychology and understand that the only way to beat a girl at her own games is to actually let go.

Not pretend to let go then post up something on some online seduction site. No, actually let go.

This may sound standard, but it works, go out and meet other women.
 
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You have no business asking questions on this forum if you have not read the DJ bible.

It is at the bottom of every page on this site - you would not be making this thread if you had read it, in particular 'Anti-Dump'.
 
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Ok, yeah I don't even know what you guys are talking about. Wanna just say it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You buy a relationship the way you want it. You don't put different tires on it. Ok, gotcha.
 
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