"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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K heres the deal.. how do I restart?

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Ok, so theres this Hb9 who plays games (I'm drunk btw), but most likely she does so because she was told by someone who wants us to fail that it will work on me. So anyways I messaged her a couple times and told her I was not into games and then decided later that I didn't wanna deal with it. (on facebook) After I told her I was not gonna pursue her, after abou 4 days, she blocked me. She works at my work and is a bit taller than I am and super nice but the games... I don't like. I was wondering on ideas of how to start this back up. I was thinking either start a new account and tell her to message me saying no more games or else ask for her number the next time I see her. Perfectly my type too... quiting smoking... (I am)... ****. I work with her btw.. big factory. IL wize though.. I'm most likely in extremely good shape. I worked this girl into the ground. Hmm either of my ideas make me look like I want her too much how could I come off hardly wanting her and still get her, while keeping her IL super high? Any ideas would be great.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wise words

Above all, Alphamale, do *not* do what you suggested in your own post.
 
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Obsidian said:
wise words

Above all, Alphamale, do *not* do what you suggested in your own post.
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No sh!t, take his advice, not your own.

Ok, you know what? Forget about her.

That's how you get better. You are dwelling on her too much, if you're not careful, she may become a one-itis. You need to work on your Inner Game. You need to understand women psychology and understand that the only way to beat a girl at her own games is to actually let go.

Not pretend to let go then post up something on some online seduction site. No, actually let go.

This may sound standard, but it works, go out and meet other women.
 
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You have no business asking questions on this forum if you have not read the DJ bible.

It is at the bottom of every page on this site - you would not be making this thread if you had read it, in particular 'Anti-Dump'.
 
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Ok, yeah I don't even know what you guys are talking about. Wanna just say it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You buy a relationship the way you want it. You don't put different tires on it. Ok, gotcha.
 
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