"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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K heres the deal.. how do I restart?

IamtheAlphamale

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Ok, so theres this Hb9 who plays games (I'm drunk btw), but most likely she does so because she was told by someone who wants us to fail that it will work on me. So anyways I messaged her a couple times and told her I was not into games and then decided later that I didn't wanna deal with it. (on facebook) After I told her I was not gonna pursue her, after abou 4 days, she blocked me. She works at my work and is a bit taller than I am and super nice but the games... I don't like. I was wondering on ideas of how to start this back up. I was thinking either start a new account and tell her to message me saying no more games or else ask for her number the next time I see her. Perfectly my type too... quiting smoking... (I am)... ****. I work with her btw.. big factory. IL wize though.. I'm most likely in extremely good shape. I worked this girl into the ground. Hmm either of my ideas make me look like I want her too much how could I come off hardly wanting her and still get her, while keeping her IL super high? Any ideas would be great.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wise words

Above all, Alphamale, do *not* do what you suggested in your own post.
 

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Obsidian said:
wise words

Above all, Alphamale, do *not* do what you suggested in your own post.
No sh!t, take his advice, not your own.

Ok, you know what? Forget about her.

That's how you get better. You are dwelling on her too much, if you're not careful, she may become a one-itis. You need to work on your Inner Game. You need to understand women psychology and understand that the only way to beat a girl at her own games is to actually let go.

Not pretend to let go then post up something on some online seduction site. No, actually let go.

This may sound standard, but it works, go out and meet other women.
 

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You have no business asking questions on this forum if you have not read the DJ bible.

It is at the bottom of every page on this site - you would not be making this thread if you had read it, in particular 'Anti-Dump'.
 

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Ok, yeah I don't even know what you guys are talking about. Wanna just say it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You buy a relationship the way you want it. You don't put different tires on it. Ok, gotcha.
 
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