"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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K-close but no kino after

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Hi everyone,

I went on a date this week with a girl I met on Bumble. All went well (DHV IOI etc.) but there were very few physical touches (from her side anyway).
Because I still had solid IOIs otherwise I decided to go for the kiss-close, successfully. After we sat down, I wanted to kino a bit (like back, legs) however she didn't feel comfortable and didn't kino back. Same when walking, I successfully kissed her few more times but no hand/ arm holding (although I tried).
I found it quite unusual. Did it already happen to you guys and how would you read into it?

Many thanks for your help!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HyenaPrince

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Hi everyone,

I went on a date this week with a girl I met on Bumble. All went well (DHV IOI etc.) but there were very few physical touches (from her side anyway).
Because I still had solid IOIs otherwise I decided to go for the kiss-close, successfully. After we sat down, I wanted to kino a bit (like back, legs) however she didn't feel comfortable and didn't kino back. Same when walking, I successfully kissed her few more times but no hand/ arm holding (although I tried).
I found it quite unusual. Did it already happen to you guys and how would you read into it?

Many thanks for your help!
How was her behavior after the kiss? Was she unfazed or rather nervous and giggly? I've never had a woman pull back physically after I went for a kiss successfully. There are a couple of indicators that show you she's completely into you after the kiss: she's nervous, she starts touching you more, asks you more questions than before and is rather unsure of herself all of a sudden. When it's bright ouside you can also try to detect if she's blushing or if her pupils are dilated.

Some women also avoid eye contact with a little smirk, after a (good) kiss.
 

Richard.P

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Her behavior didn't change much tbh. I'd go for unfazed; she never avoided the kisses but wasn't euphorical either. It just reminds me of a girl who once told me she didn't want to be too close in public. But here dunno if it's that or a lack of (solid) interest.
Thanks for the clues, very helpful. She did seem to be more talktive and a bit unsure.
 

HyenaPrince

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Her behavior didn't change much tbh. I'd go for unfazed; she never avoided the kisses but wasn't euphorical either. It just reminds me of a girl who once told me she didn't want to be too close in public. But here dunno if it's that or a lack of (solid) interest.
Thanks for the clues, very helpful. She did seem to be more talktive and a bit unsure.
Where did you guys meet up and at what time of the day?
 

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We met on the streets of a crowded city in the afternoon. I didn’t transition to dinner
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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