"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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  1. corsica

    How to Escalate During Dinner Date

    There's a few other threads about dinning with prospects but no actual details on how to escalate. I don't pay for dinner unless I already had sex with a girl. But I already did that in the past. What I don't like about dinner is that the girl is sitting across from you and during that time...
  2. CollegeMan22

    How to Escalate From the Date

    I'm a college student and am relatively new to the Manosphere/SoSuave. Over the past semester, I've gone out on dates with seven girls. I meet them in class, at study sessions, at clubs, and at parties/dances. Because I don't have a car and really don't want a girl to drive me somewhere (makes...
  3. R

    K-close but no kino after

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  4. Panther_Orb

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    How to deal with a popular girl? (who has a thing for me and the feeling is mutual). Almost everybody (new guys at her work) want to flirt with her, or date (and she knows it). Including better looking and richer guys. My prob is with the alpha male dudes out of those. I am not as Alpha as...
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